More than Sex: Jeremy
Jeremy is 32, divorced, has one child and works in IT. We almost dated once upon a time. We also had sex once or twice. I forget now how many times, I drank a lot back then.
What makes a man decide he wants more from a woman than just sex? Or domestic favors?
Jeremy: The woman’s personality I would say. If you like more than just her body or what she’s willing to do for you (domestic favors), then I would say that’s gonna make a guy want to be a woman’s boyfriend.
Me: So You didn’t like my personality?
Jeremy: Gosh, that’s a tough one. I understand the question better now. With you I don’t think that our personalities and lifestyles would work well over time.
Me: I agree.
Jeremy: I was in a different spot then. I was drinking a lot and pretty unhealthy mentally.
Jeremy: Where is all this coming from? Why are you asking?
Me: I agree. I’m just spitballing here. Something weird has happened. I have men all over me, but all they want is sex. It doesn’t feel good. I feel disposable.
Jeremy: Yeah, I think somewhere along the way men have twisted dating all up. They think sex is part of the process in determining whether to be with a woman. Just wait for one that wants to and tries to hang out with you with no sex strings involved.
