Women Can’t Stand Nice Guys…
At least that’s what Lucia thinks. Lucia is one of the “expert” authors on yourtango.com and in this blog post she outlines the 12 reasons why women hate “nice guys.” And I have to agree with her on some of them.
As many of you know I enjoy truly nice men and I don’t cotton to Lucia’s nice guy/bad boy dichotomy. But I definitely can’t handle wimpy men who are self-proclaimed nice guys who blame every failure in their life — especially their dating lives — on the idea that they are “nice.”
In my experience most of these fellas aren’t much nicer than the average man — they are just chickens.
Anyway, enough of that.
Lucia’s second point about the fact that no one respects a doormat really rang true to me. Some of her other schemas were a bit convoluted. But I thought I would take this opportunity to open this topic (er…topics?) up for conversation again.
So, let’s conversate!